Australia Australia Day australian Barack Obama bariatric surgery Beaches Bicheno Birds Bonneville Brisbane British Columbia Broken Bay Canada canadian commuting customer service diet dieting discrimination Ettalong Beach fat Fat Tales fear Food Addiction friends gastric band golf Growing old Health home Hunter Valley Kangaroo Koala Lap Band Lap Band surgery Life love Margaret River Martin Luther King motorbikes motorcycle motorcycles nature obesity Optifast Orford overweight Perth Public Speaking Queensland rain relationships religion riding roo scars snakes Spiders stars surgery swimming sydney Tasmania Tassie Toastmasters tourism Travel Triumph Ulysses WA weight disorders weight loss Western Australia wombat woy woy
Scribbles on life, the universe and everything… Woy Woy, Ettalong, Umina and teh Central Coast that is!
It’s Not That You Have the Fear, It’s What You Do With It!
March 5, 2009Posted by on
Dogs know what they are doing. Have you ever seen them? Hanging their head out the car window? Just hanging on by their toes? I read somewhere that dogs enjoy the open window, not because of the wind rushing over their face, but because of all the smells in the air. Imagine the smells we miss with the windows rolled up and the air conditioning or heater on?
You don’t have to imagine it when riding a motorcycle. The wind rushes past you and the smells assault your senses.
When I was a young girl growing up in a remote environment, motorcycles were are part of life. My sister and I had a mini-bike and a motor scooter. My brother had a moped as well as a “street” bike. A man from a neighboring community took me under his arm one year and taught me how to race dirt-bikes on the oval track. I was racing his 125. I found it exhilirating, to say the least.
A series of events changed the way I felt about motorcycles. I was riding the 125 with a “city” girl on the back when she caught her foot in the spokes sending us careening down the dirt road skin first. I was unscathed, but she had landed on her chin and split it wide open. I felt responsible. I should have been more careful with a “non rider” on the back.
Then, the guy who was teaching me to race, quit calling. The next I heard was when the police phoned to ask me questions about when I had seen him last and who he was with. I never saw him or heard from him again. My dirt-bike racing days were over virtually before they started.
When I was 14 a very good friend had a major accident on his motorcycle. Totally his fault, going too fast for the road conditions. He was in a coma for almost a year. With brain damage, it was a different person who came home.
For whatever reason, I swore off bikes. The years have gone by and here I am with a new love in my life. Go figure, he would be a bike fanatic!
The first time I got on the back of his bike, I was nervous. My heart was beating fast and my hands were sweaty. It is amazing what can happen when you are trying to impress someone. I persevered! The relationship flourished.
Now we have just bought a new Triumph. I am so excited, for him and for me. He is not a complete person without a bike and I have really started to enjoy something that I loved to do as a child. It helps that he is a very competent rider and I feel totally safe with him at all times. He is not one of those riders who feels the need to “be a man” and scare the shit out of me. He is always aware of my uneasiness and discomfort and strives to alleviate my fears. He does it well because I am becoming more and more comfortable on the back of the bike.
As I relax, I am starting to notice everything around me, especially the smells. Here in Australia there are many fragrant flowers and trees. I am now smelling the various scents with vigor. Okay, I might not like the same smells as a dog, but I do enjoy the onslaught to my senses. I even relish in the wind blowing in my face.
Where did that fearless little girl go? I don’t know where she went, but I do know one thing for certain… she’s back!